You may have suspected your lover was being unfaithful for some time before you caught them.
Nothing can prepare you for the moment your suspicions are ultimately proven, no matter how prepared you may seem to be.
But only if you don’t catch them in the act. Never carry out these three actions;
Never approach them right away; you might have seen some gifts in their bag, some underwear that isn’t yours, or even some missing condoms. You might have read texts on your phone.
- Don’t approach them just yet though—this evidence isn’t reliable enough, and they might always lie to you and then lie better to cover their tracks.
When you confront a cheating partner without solid proof, it merely encourages them to lie and hide more effectively.
2. Never ask them about their unfaithful partner; never do it. It is humiliating. They don’t owe you any kind of loyalty because they are not the ones who are in a relationship with you.
If your partner is disrespecting your union, you should have a problem with them rather than expecting others to do the same. Simply wait for the story to develop.
3. Although the majority of people will tell you to leave a cheating partner right away, I urge you to hold off.
However, the truth is that if you’re still in love with them, you’ll end up returning as soon as they ask you to.
If you keep going back, they will stop taking you seriously because they will know how to push your buttons. They will continue doing it because they know you will always return.
The greatest approach to handling an unfaithful spouse is to ensure that they are never able to contact you again, and the best way to develop resistance to them is to ensure that you have had enough of their tricks.
Therefore, keep your discoveries to yourself, manage your information carefully, and, most importantly, leave when you’ve had enough. You won’t ever go back in that way.